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Currently… in Germany!

17/11/2014 by Jamie 29 Comments

Currently Germany

I’m sitting here in the empty living room of our new house, lounging on a Tommy Bahama beach chair with Hawaiian sand still in the cup holder, wishing I hadn’t just devoured an entire bag of M&Ms. But here I am at 1:42am, hanging out with a jet-lagged 3 year old who is wondering why we haven’t seen Santa Claus here in Germany yet.

Thinking about | what this next year is going to look like, wondering how hard the European driving test is going to be, and hoping to find a preschool that has openings so I can take a full course load spring semester.

Reading | Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail by Cheryl Strayed

Listening to | trains passing our house every  20 minutes or so. They are electric so it’s just a a low hum (no horns or whistles – take that Kent)! I also thought I heard a faint newborn cry. Could be my biological clock ticking, could be the neighbors… who knows.

Drinking | Lots and lots of water. I can’t wait to try all the different local beers, but for now I MUST REHYDRATE.

Thankful for | 2 playgrounds in walking distance of our new house – best thing ever!

Missing | my fam back in Washington. We got to stay there for 8 weeks between Hawaii and Germany and my son got used to having aunts, uncles, and grandparents around all the time. Maybe one day we can live in Washington again *sigh* 

Loving | that my son calls our new house the stinky house (They just repainted and replaced the carpets.)

Well, that’s it for now. I gotta run because my son is calling from the other room that he is stuck in the laundry hamper (again). Hopefully he gets back to sleep before the sun rises in Germany – wish me luck!

Have you been to Germany before? What cities/castles/fests would you recommend seeing while we’re here?

 

Filed Under: Currently, Germany Tagged With: Currently, Germany

Book Review: River Between

08/11/2014 by Jamie 32 Comments

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Next year it will be 50 years since the publication of River Between by Ngugi wa Thiong’o, and I think one of the reasons the art of fiction is so beautiful is because stories can always teach us something or make us feel empathy for others. I LOVE that we can simply open a book and be deep in the heart of Kenya, identifying with a boy who is born into a tribe of rich culture and traditions. Through Waiyaki’s story, and the stories of the other children in the book, we can see the effects of oppression and colonization on kids. There are consequences for children when they grow up in a world of separation and divided morality, and those effects transcend national boundaries, and can certainly span generations.

4914Waiyaki is sent away at a young age to receive an education from missionaries that bring Christianity and “civilization” to the people of the ridges. The missionaries hoped to change the little Gikuyu children by bringing them education and rules to live by. When Waiyaki comes back to his tribe after his time away at school, he feels estranged. He doesn’t feel like he fully belongs in his own culture, but he also knows how different he is from the white missionaries. His dream is to bring the “white man’s education” to the tribes so they could have better lives. Ngugi portrays a boy who is caught in the middle of change. Waiyaki struggles with the fact that he may not seem loyal to the people in his tribe when he becomes like the missionaries with his educational pursuits. But the Christian missionaries still see him as a heathen because he condones the rituals of the tribe.

As Waiyaki grows into a young man, the narrative reflects on the work he has already done and his hopes for the future: “With the little knowledge that he had he would uplift the tribe, yes, give it the white man’s learning and his tools, so that in the end the tribe would be strong enough, wise enough, to chase away the settlers and the missionaries” (87). Ngugi reveals Waiyaki as a hero in this way. He doesn’t fall prey to the occupying religion or ways of life, but he adopts their best aspects and tries fervently to share what he has learned with his people. Waiyaki’s desire to remain a part of the tribe is at the heart of what Ngugi was doing when he wrote this novel in his native tongue, Gikuyu. Ngugi shares his character’s desire to spread education and also to remain loyal to his people. In a way, this story he tells is his own.

Another child in the story, Muthoni, grows up on the Christianized ridge, and when she decides she wants to get circumcised, her father is horrified. Even though she knows that her family will disown her, she chooses to “be made beautiful in the eyes of the tribe” (44).  Ngugi depicts Muthoni as a brave child, and she foreshadows the attempt that Waiyaki makes later in the novel to bring the two sides together. Her death is a dark reminder that it is often the weak and the powerless that take the brunt of these kinds of cultural conflicts.

Muthoni’s sister, Nyambura, also tries to bridge the gap. She attempts to stay loyal to her family, not wanting to cause division, but eventually goes back to her tribal roots and leaves the umbrella of the colonial occupation. Her desire for Waiyaki shows her belief in the power of agreement between sides. Nyambura goes through the most struggles deciding what side to end up on, and she eventually chooses the middle ground. Her and Waiyaki both are too lukewarm to be accepted by either side. As the novel comes to a close, the two characters that have done the most internal soul searching, and experienced the most personal growth, are ridiculed. Their situation pays tribute to the difficulties children go through coming of age in a country that is being colonized. They not only have to find their own moral boundaries, but they must decide whose morality – their ancestors’ or the occupying country’s – they are going to accept as their own.

In the River Between it is the children who are most affected by the occupying country, and it is they who will live in the world that is created by the mess. Ngugi seems to suggest that a story of the next generation, after Waiyaki, might bring even more separation, rather than a coming together of the opposing sides. In the setting of the African jungles of Kenya, it is the children who feel the full force of colonization and oppression – both the struggles and triumphs in adapting to the precarious cultural position into which they were born.

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In his research abstract on the faculty page at U.C. Irvine, Ngugi says of fiction: “I use the novel form to explore issues of wealth, power and values in society and how their production and organization in society impinge on the quality of a people’s spiritual life.”

You can read more about his life and works at his website –> Ngugi wa Thiong’o | Distinguished Professor of English and Comparative Literature at the University of California, Irvine

What do you think is the biggest effect that civil wars, colonization, and/or poverty have on the current generation of kids experiencing these things around the world today? Or do you think that these issues aren’t relevant anymore?

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A Successful Flight (Minus the Swearing)

03/11/2014 by Jamie 67 Comments

Flying with a 3 year old

Please note: there are affiliate links in this post, which means if you purchase an item from my link I will get a (very) small percentage of the purchase. Full disclosure statement can be found here. Thank you!

Melissa & Doug Felt Friends Stickers: These are so fun to make!

Kindle Fire for Kids: A tablet of some kind is basically a must for long flights with young kids. Bonus points for this kid-proof case and easy return/exchange policy for when your kid drops it on the tarmac.

Washi tape: Totally removable tape that you can put all over the plane walls, windows, and tray table. Win!

Mickey Mouse Clubhouse figurines: Any small toys that can stand easily on the tray table will do. I recommend getting these for cheap at a thrift store, but if you’re in a pinch, click on the link and grab these ones!

Check out this awesome kids tray! It’s already clean and will keep toys and snacks contained.

A Successful Flight (Minus the Swearing)

I spent a lot of time preparing for our flight from Oahu to Phoenix. My backpack was full of tricks and snacks for entertaining my son. When our row was called to board at the airport, my husband was standing near the line and motioned for us to come over. My son was struggling to get his backpack on and mumbled, “Dammit.” My husband called from about 15 feet away, “What?” And my son hollers back “DAMMIT!” The lady sitting next to me gave me a look with her eyebrows raised. So we were off to a good start.

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He had fun perusing the safety info and helping Daddy get his seat belt on. We bought some new t.v. shows he’s never seen on the Kindle Fire and rented the movie Up. The movie was a big fail – he just didn’t have the attention span for a movie, but he spent about 2 hours browsing the new t.v. shows, so that was a win.

Successful Flight Safety Manual

I tried something new on this flight. I always worry that we are bothering the people in front of us when my son is rough opening and shutting his tray and when he “accidentally” kicks the seat in front of him. So when we first sat down in our seats I got the attention of the man sitting in front of my son. “Sir? Hello this is my son behind you and he’s going to try really hard not to touch your seat, but if he does feel free to turn around and tell him – I don’t like that!” The two ladies sitting with him laughed and he seemed pretty good-natured about it. Plus I didn’t have to be paranoid that the man was fuming every time the seat was bumped. I’m thinking if we started annoying him at any point he would have been comfortable enough to at least turn around and make a joke about it.

Also, do yourself a favor and get some Kids Headphones. These are some of the best customer rated kids headphones on the market!

Successful flight Kid on the planeHere is one of my goodie bags filled with wrapped surprises. It made it through security, but there’s always a chance that they will have to open the gifts if the x-rays make them suspicious of something.

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(Side note: I love these water bottles for kids!)

Most of the small wrapped gifts for this flight were figurines from the Goodwill and small pieces of candy. I also found some cool washi tape from Amazon that is reusable and kinda feels like the sticky part of a post it note.

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We had a lot of fun putting together a lego spiderman car. It was a small miracle we didn’t lose one of the tiny pieces on the floor of the plane. Only downside was the plane was dark and mostly quiet by the time we were putting it together and he was just SO excited and kept yelling out with glee. Eh, better than crying.

Successful Flight Animal Figurines Successful Flight Toys to Pack

(Another side note… get some of these Little Animal Toys: Again, go to a thrift store for these little guys, but it’s hard to beat this deal on Amazon for new ones!)

So, when we were waiting for our row’s turn to exit the plane a lady tapped me on the shoulder and said “Your parenting was a real pleasure to witness.” I couldn’t tell if she was joking, so I said, “He wasn’t too loud?” (Because he totally was loud most of the time.) She said, “Well kids are loud, but you guys did a wonderful job with him.” So I’m willing to bet she wasn’t the same lady who heard him yell DAMMIT as we were boarding.

As we left the airplane the pilot was just exiting the cockpit and asked him if he wanted some wings. He was so stinkin’ proud of those wings! He has worn them quite a few times since then :)

Successful Flight With a 3 Year Old

So at the end of the day it was a very successful flight! Three and a half is a whole new ball game for 6+ hour flights – so much easier than the 12-24 month age. We have one more long flight before we reach our new home, but I have a few more new ideas up my sleeve for that one. And miles to go before we sleep!

How cute is this leather kids backpack with a plane stitched on?

What are your favorite toys/games/snacks to pack in order to have a successful flight with a little one? 
 
 

Filed Under: Airplane Travel, Travel with Kids Tagged With: airplane travel, travel with kids

The Weekly Round-Up

28/10/2014 by Jamie 10 Comments

Here’s what I’ve been reading this week!

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 + The Dwelling Tree has some great tips for Better organized digital photos + 512GB Anywhere Giveaway! The best tip for me was to delete unwanted photos immediately – I am so bad at that!

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+ Sorority Life to Army Wife has ideas for Eating Healthy While Traveling. I often find myself stuck in a hotel room with a mini-fridge and a microwave, and it is SO HARD to eat healthy, but she has some great ideas to share!

Road Eastern Washington

+ The Cynical Sailor & His Salty Sidekick shared some beautiful photos of Eastern Washington in Desolation, Dust & Tiny Towns {Eastern Washington State}. I love Washington state and I used to drive through the east side of the state fairly often. It really is beautiful, even though it’s pretty desolate at places.

The point of The Weekly Round-Up is to focus on other people instead of just another post about ourselves.  It’s to build better community, share insight into what we love to read, and hopefully introduce you to a new blogger you’ll love and adore!  Wanna play along?  Write a post with links to your favorite blog posts from others throughout the week, put the button in it, and link up with us on Sundays!

The Weekly Round-Up

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